A gay friend of mine emailed me yesterday asking for help with something. Her father emailed her to ask what her position was on the Proposition 102 issue. He wanted for her to explain why “marriage was so important” to her. He felt that gay people can pretty much get all the same things that [...]

I finished a romance novel yesterday in one sitting. I was bored and thought it would be good to just spend the day reading, so I did. The book I read was called Heart 2 Heart by Julie Cannon. It is a lesbian romance novel published by Bold Stroke Books. Most of the books from [...]

I had an interesting Twitter conversation with @nooccar today, who began with “it’s hilarious when you’r txting about trimmin’ bush ;)” in response to my tweet: “bush trimming turning into super big job. No wonder the yard guy was charging me $165 a month.” Amused that he picked up on a possible double meaning, which [...]

Okay, I’ll start by saying this might be a bit too revealing, so I might cut where necessary. You can ask if you want for me to fill in the details. I’m not even sure why this came up, but my identity on the internet has been soul4real for as long as I can remember. [...]

Another one of my friends turned 40 this week. This seems to be happening on a more frequent basis these days. And 40 seems to be a significant number for most people, so this is grounds for major celebration. Such is the case for my friend Dr. Kelly, who flew out from Misery (Missouri) where [...]

Judy Syfers originally published this article, “Why I Want A Wife,” in the Spring 1972 issue of Ms. magazine. Syfers presents a witty satirical view of a women’s traditional role as a servant to her husband in the article. The article was funny of course because Syfers is a woman. It’s not so funny any [...]

What will they think of next? I had to laugh at this one. How many stereotypes can one pack into a 2 minute video? If you can’t see the video below, check it out on the G4TV site.